Five reasons women avoid having sex

 Here are some reasons why your woman may sometimes turn down your sexual demand !

You can’t get hard: In a survey , six percent of women complained that they hate sex because their partners had sexual issues , such as erectile dysfunction . When a man can ’ t get hard , sexologists say , it leads to painful intercourse for the woman , and also prevents her from achieving orgasm. To make your woman be on the heat for you , just as you are for her , take care of your package and work on your erection.

She finds sex painful: Sex should feel good — but 11 percent of the women in a survey actually reported feeling pain during sex . In fact , a separate study of nearly 7, 000 British women also found that one in 13 women feel physical pain during sex . This made women more likely to feel uninterested in sex . Plus , they also had more trouble getting wet and reaching orgasm. Focusing on foreplay , oral sex , and using a little lubrication when she needs extra help can help remedy the situation , says lead study author Kirstin Mitchell, Ph .D . Focusing on making her feel good will lead to less pain and more arousal , which ultimately leads to more ( and better ) sex for the both of you .

She is anxious: Thirteen percent of women in the survey reported avoiding sex because they were anxious. This could potentially stem from any pain she ’ s feeling. In the study mentioned above, women often felt anxious during sex because they started anticipating painful sex , Mitchell explains. Feeling self- conscious about it can also make her feel nervous, as she may not want to bring it up and hurt your feelings . If things feel awkward , just communicate with her : Openly ask if what you ’ re doing feels good and go from there.

There ’ s a lack of intimacy: Just over 10 percent of women reported avoiding sex due to a lack of intimacy . Feeling connected to you is crucial for her , since research shows that women have trouble reaching orgasm if they ’ re not psychologically aroused . That means you can ’ t just push the right buttons physically — she has to feel mentally turned on , too.

She ’s too tired: A quarter of women reported avoiding sex because they were too tired — which shouldn ’ t be too surprising , considering a 2010 poll from the National Sleep Foundation found that married people or couples living together were too tired for frequent sex 21 to 26 percent of the time . Plus , if she regularly goes to bed earlier than you , it may also be a sign that she doesn ’ t find sex terribly exciting . Try initiating sex earlier in the night to pique her interest .